Recently we added a link to our resources page at proteamemoryclinic.com, which leads to a database full of information about elder abuse; what signs to look out for, how to recognise it and what forms it takes. To view this info for yourself, please click here. But such an important subject should be spoken about as often as possible, as the biggest cause of its continued existence is lack of awareness. Elder abuse always happens in the dark, and the best way to prevent it is by shining a light on the subject.
According to the Nursing Home Abuse Centre, the organisation responsible for the above mentioned linked information, over 10 million elders experience abuse in some form or another every single year1. They go on to say that a 2020 study found that 66% of nursing home staff admitted to committing some form of abuse on residents2. How is this allowed to happen? Unfortunately, it’s likely a result of the same problems that plague every area of the medical profession; namely understaffing, improper training and staff burnout. While there is absolutely no excuse for malicious mistreatment of residents, a lot of what is classified as abuse is actually unintentional harm caused by lack of oversight or resources. It should also be noted that these statistics don’t only take professionals into account, but also encompass family members who have an elder in their care.
With that said, what are some of the warning signs you, as a concerned loved one should be looking out for if you know someone either at a facility or being looked after at home? The most important red flag to be aware of would be if the patient themselves states they are being neglected. Of course many who care for the elderly or infirm can tell you that as a patients grip on their mental and physical faculties begins to slip, they may begin to claim neglect or abuse where there is none. That doesn’t change the fact that if there is a claim, it should be looked into. Better to find out later that the smoke was just smoke, rather than finding out you ignored a fire. Some other warning signs to be aware of:
- General lack of hygiene
- Bruising, welts, sprains or broken bones
- Sudden change in personality
- Living in dirty or unsanitary conditions
- The patient being left unsupervised or going missing for large periods of time
- Appearing dehydrated or malnourished
- Failing to take their medication or not having the correct medication provided
Those are warning signs to be on the lookout for when it comes to the patient. But a close eye should also be paid to the carer. If the carer appears burned out, exhausted and short tempered the patient could be neglected purely because the carer isn’t able to adequately carry the burden. If the carer refuses to leave you alone with the patient, that could be a sign of something more sinister taking place.
In general the best way to ensure that there is no neglect or abuse of loved ones taking place is to be aware and to be vigilant. If you suspect something is taking place then be sure you are aware of the correct authorities to involve. If the patient is at a care facility, speak to the administration before seeking third party assistance from lawyers or law enforcement. If the patient is being cared for by family, reach out to extended family with your concerns. If necessary, get into contact with the Social Development office to speak to a social worker regarding the issue. For more detailed information regarding this branch of the government, please read our previous blog article on the subject here.
The elderly and infirm are some of the most vulnerable members of our society. Almost all of them are unable to defend themselves when confronted with abuse or neglect. When that happens, they will rely on the rest of us to act on their behalf. Should that time come, make sure you’re fully equipped to protect those you love and hold dear.
